Difficulty Reaching Orgasm

I know the female orgasm is often seen as more difficult to reach than the male orgasm. But I am really struggling to orgasm, even with my partner who I love. I have had orgasms before but not sure why it doesn’t happen all the time. Any tips??

Hey @MJxx, hope you don’t mind me asking, do you spend any time masturbating or working on your self pleasure? I didn’t start out pleasuring myself, though once I worked out what I liked and how I liked it, that’s when orgasms really clicked for me.