I’m in a long-term relationship and the sex has stopped

#1

I’ve been with my partner for 7 years, what can we do to get the spark back? I still love him, but it’s almost as if we forget to have sex these days! Ideas/help welcome.

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#2

Spontaneity! Text him in the middle of the day and tell him you’re thinking about him. Naked. Build it up over the day and see what happens.

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#3

Surprise him with new underwear or no underwear when he gets home. Have a candlelit dinner, you don’t have to cook, you can still make it romantic just order his fave food in and lay it out like you cooked it.

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#4

Yes @SophieG also buy a new sex toy it doesn’t have to be anything fancy or intimidating just something that you can both enjoy using :wink:

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#5

I’m going to do this tomorrow and see how it goes! Thanks SophieG

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#6

Yes, I love these ideas!! Also mix it up a bit and do something new, it will add a bit of spark

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#8

Definitely spice things up and let us know who you get on @Ali

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#9

Have sex in a different place… even if it just a hotel room to start with! But getting out of your normal ‘routine’ will be a good way to start! Then you can be more adventurous :slight_smile:

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