I’ve been with my partner for 7 years, what can we do to get the spark back? I still love him, but it’s almost as if we forget to have sex these days! Ideas/help welcome.
Spontaneity! Text him in the middle of the day and tell him you’re thinking about him. Naked. Build it up over the day and see what happens.
Surprise him with new underwear or no underwear when he gets home. Have a candlelit dinner, you don’t have to cook, you can still make it romantic just order his fave food in and lay it out like you cooked it.
Yes @SophieG also buy a new sex toy it doesn’t have to be anything fancy or intimidating just something that you can both enjoy using
I’m going to do this tomorrow and see how it goes! Thanks SophieG
Yes, I love these ideas!! Also mix it up a bit and do something new, it will add a bit of spark
Have sex in a different place… even if it just a hotel room to start with! But getting out of your normal ‘routine’ will be a good way to start! Then you can be more adventurous