HANX

I want more sex than my boyfriend

My new boyfriend and I have such mis-matched libidos.

I am not used to being the one that initiates sex, and am a bit embarrassed about it. Previous boyfriends have always been up for sex all the time! But now I feel that my boyfriend is less attracted to me, as he never is the one to initiate sex.

I don’t know what to do. Should I be worried that he isn’t sexually attracted to me?

It’s not something to be worried about but you should tell him how you feel.
People always think women have less of a sex drive than men, but this isn’t the case! Everyone is different, and you shouldn’t feel embarrassed to say you want sex.
Is it good when you do have sex? If so, I don’t think you need to worry… enjoy your libido and celebrate it. I’m sure your boyfriend loves that you initiate sex :slight_smile: And maybe you should just say sometimes you’d like him to… boys are simple, so he probably just needs telling!!

Ah thanks Rosie, I will try and muster up the courage to tell him. I know you’re right, but I can’t help being embarrassed

Hey @elle how are things going with your boyfriend?